Club Rules & Etiquette
Guidelines for a Respectful Experience
At Withintemptation, we prioritize the comfort and safety of all our guests. Understanding and respecting our rules is essential for a harmonious experience.
New Update:
“Fluffy” Robes & Towels will now be £1 each.
Microfibre towels will be free or your welcome to bring your own in.
What is the most important rule at Withintemptation?
The most important rule is that ‘no means no.’ Consent is paramount, and all members must respect each other’s boundaries.
Do I need a membership to attend events?
No, membership is not required to attend events at Withintemptation. All are welcome to explore our facilities. Becoming a member will however reduce entry price and save you money in the long run.
Yearly Member prices:
Couples £50
Single male £35
Single Female £20
Can I use my phone or take pictures?
We ask that you only use phones in the front bar (No video calls)
You can take photos around the club as long as everyone in the frame has consented and you do not capture anyone else in the background.
What is the dress code for the club?
The dress code is smart casual for all guests. We encourage attire that is stylish yet comfortable. Some events may have a specific dress code which most times are an optional added fun but please make sure to check the details before arriving.
Do you have lockers or changing room?
We do lockers on trade basis, usually a key for a key.
We do not have changing area but your welcome to use the locker area or the disabled toilet next to it.
What should we bring?
Nothing is really needed at Withintemptation apart from the following:
If you look below 25 bring I.D
Cash or card for entrance fee and bar.
We have the following available for you:
Condoms and Lube.
Microfibre towels.
*Fluffy towels and robes are now £1 each (your welcome to bring your own)
Drinks, we have a fully licensed bar.
Food, theres chocolate bars and crisps at the bar and we may provide snacks and nibbles to keep you going. You can also order in.
Im "CD/TV/TS/Q" will I be welcome?
We welcome you with open arms!
If you arrive dressed as a female, the entry fee will be the female rate.
Same as membership but if you do take out the females membership you will have to always arrive as one!
Disability-friendly
Our club is fully committed to being disability-friendly, offering wheelchair access throughout the downstairs areas of the venue. There is convenient access to both the front and back bars, as well as to the dungeon and sauna. We also have a disabled toilet for added comfort and accessibility. The pool however is raised with steps going up to it so that depends on the level of disability. We strive to ensure everyone can enjoy their time at our club in an inclusive and welcoming environment.
Do we have to join in?
No. There’s absolutely no pressure or expectations here. Feel free to stay fully clothed for the entire night if that’s what you prefer. If anyone attempts to pressure you in any way, please report it to our staff immediately, and we’ll handle the situation. Your comfort and enjoyment are our top priorities.
Opening times & last entry
We open 8pm-2am Friday and Saturday night (But always check the event times as we may have a special on where we open earlier or later!) Last entry is 11.30pm if you message we may be able to push to 12am but after that time we feel you won’t get enough time to socialise and enjoy the facilities.
Are there specific guidelines for single men?
Yes, single men must adhere to stricter guidelines, including respectful behavior and understanding that consent is always required. If unsure you can find a gents guide and rules at the front bar.
How can I ensure a respectful experience for everyone?
Always communicate openly, respect personal boundaries, and follow the club’s rules and guidelines. House rules are located at the front bar and if unsure always ask first.
How do I approach someone?
We mostly say to try and read the room, eye contact is a bonus sometimes or even simply asking to join others at a table for a drink to find out what their after.
The more confident members may just beckon you over or be blunt and straight to the point.
If all else fails we have a coloured band system in place to help cut out the hardship in finding what you and others are looking for:
Red – No single men
Yellow – Females only
Green – Bi
Blue V.I.P – Greedy girl
The dungeon curtain is closed, can we go in?
The dungeon isn’t a private area so as long as your going in to play thats fine.
Single men do not open the curtain unless you have already asked to watch or join in.
What do we wear in the pool or sauna?
Pool:
We recommend going in naked so you dont have to carry wet clothes home.
But this is optional, if the nerves are getting the better of you bring along some swim wear or just use your underwear.
Please do not put anything “fluffy” or candle wax in the pool.
Sauna:
Go in naked, a towel, or robe.
Do not enter in full clothing.
Clean up your mess!
Please keep areas clean for others to use. Around all the play areas are cleaning equipment and bins, please use them!
If your a squirter ask for a mop 💦😉
Beds
Please remove any footwear before using the beds, especially heels! They will sink strait through leaving a hole.
Gloryhole guidelines
Male gloryholes:
If you are on the giving end wait inside with your fingers out of the hole to beckon or rest your mouth on the edge.
If they are in use do not open the curtain!
Customary to knock just before cumming.
Female Gloryholes:
If you do not wish to have people join you in the booth use the red rope provided.
If the curtain is across do not open it!
Events details
Always check the event description to find out:
Themes (usually optional)
Open door or guest list only
Single men ratio or invite only
Entry Prices
Date & time
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Couples & Ladies (including TV/TS) are usually welcome anytime but please still always check incase of private events ect..
Do you have a group chat?
Use the button at the very bottom of this page to join our telegram group chat. Telegram is an excellent platform for privacy, as it allows users to communicate without revealing their phone numbers. This feature ensures that you can maintain your anonymity or choose to share as much personal information as you feel comfortable with.
Smoking
We have a sheltered outside are for you to vape and smoke in, if you want to keep the heat in upstaird please keep the door closed!
Private hire
Please go to the contact page, message and include the following:
Date, duration, number of people and whether you want the full club or specific facilities you only want to use (i.e we can do a better price if you only use the dungeon)
Is there CCTV?
Yes as with our license policy we have CCTV covering the main fire escape doors and two inside corridors.
The data from these can only be seen by the owner of the club and be requested by the Police following an incident in which the information might be of use.
Footage only last so long before overwriting itself.
Showers
We recommend arriving smelling fresh but obviously for those traveling if you need to shower we have a large shower room for up to 8 people and also a smaller on in the dark private room.
Dress Code Guidelines
At Withintemptation, we uphold a smart casual dress code to ensure a sophisticated and inviting atmosphere for all our guests. Attendees are encouraged to express their individuality while maintaining a polished appearance. Please avoid overly casual attire such as sportswear, flip-flops, hoodies or hats.
We do not have a dress down policy as we want newbies to feel welcome! However those that like to flaunt it feel free to change into lingerie, kink wear or even show off plenty of flesh. We try to promote a non judgemental environment for all to relax into.
For single men however upstairs from the gloryholes onwards you must be dressed down (Robe, Towel, Underwear, Naked ect..)
Our dress code is designed to enhance the overall experience at the club, promoting a setting where everyone feels comfortable and respected. We appreciate your cooperation in adhering to these guidelines, as it helps maintain the unique ambiance that Withintemptation is renowned for. Should you have any questions regarding suitable attire, feel free to contact us for further clarification.
Guidelines for Single Men
Navigating Your Experience at Withintemptation
Single men are welcome at Withintemptation but check the event description to make sure its not invite only or set ratio before turning up to avoid disappointment at the door.
We have specific guidelines to ensure a respectful and enjoyable environment for all. It is crucial to approach interactions with courtesy and understanding. Consent is non-negotiable, and any form of pressure or disrespect is strictly prohibited. Dress appropriately, adhering to our smart casual dress code, and be mindful of the club’s atmosphere. Engage with others respectfully, and remember that participation is a privilege that comes with the responsibility of maintaining the club’s standards.
Just remember to always ask to watch or join in whilst not disturbing the general flow of the room. There will be a gents guide to ettiquette found in the front bar for you to have a read on arrival and also check out more rules in the section above.
Each event is unique, depending on who shows up that night. Come with an open mind—don’t expect guaranteed fun, as we can’t promise anything. Instead, come along to socialize, meet new people, and enjoy the community. If something great happens, that’s a bonus! But don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t. The more often you attend, the more chances you’ll have to connect.
Upcoming Event Themes
Event Themes Overview
Withintemptation is excited to present a variety of themed events that add a unique flair to our club nights. Each theme is carefully curated to enhance the club’s vibrant atmosphere and provide an unforgettable experience for our guests. From hotwifing to unicorns and couples only, our events cater to a diverse range of interests and fantasies.
Our themes are designed to encourage creativity and self-expression, allowing members to immerse themselves fully in the experience. Whether you’re dressing up for wet T-shirt fun or letting loose at naked seduction, our themed events promise an evening of excitement and intrigue. Stay tuned to our event calendar for the latest updates and prepare to indulge in the captivating world of Withintemptation.
Always check the details on the events page to see if the theme is optional dress code if so smart casual is acceptable.
Single men do not just turn up at the door without looking what is on, if it’s set ratio or invite only make sure to message us and we will see if theres space for you to come along.
Join our group chat
Telegram Chat
Dive into our group chat to connect with like-minded individuals in a fun, welcoming, and respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced or new to the scene, it’s a great way to make new friends, share experiences, and stay up-to-date with club events and meetups. Respect, consent, and open communication are key to ensuring everyone feels comfortable and valued!